After nearly seven months that went by way quicker than I’d even realized, I find myself back in Portland, Oregon.
In the five days I’ve been here I’ve found that the weather is even more beautiful than I’d hoped, the beer is even better than I remember, and having a flexible lifestyle in the States is going to be even more enjoyable than I’d imagined.
Over the past three days I’ve done something that I haven’t done in, well, I can’t remember how long. I’ve been completely shut off from the internet and my computer. I’ve been spending time with friends that I haven’t seen since I returned and going to events that I’ve been looking forward to for months. Somehow during that time, internet just didn’t quite seem to fit in.
And surprisingly, the world didn’t come to an end…
This weekend has taught me how important it is to take time to really enjoy the things that are worth living for in life. I’ve been so caught up in work and projects over the past few months, that I think part of me forgot this. Even when I was doing cool stuff like scuba diving in Ko Tao or motor-biking through Bali, I always felt guilty about it. There was work that I could have been doing, so I felt like that’s where I needed to be. But there will always be work that can be done. One of the fundamental components of the location independent lifestyle is learning how to embrace the fact that just because you can work, doesn’t mean you should work.
In order to be successful in this lifestyle, I’m finding how necessary it is to “turn off” during tim es when I’ve told myself I would do so. If I’m going to golf for an afternoon or take a bike ride, I need to enjoy it! The work will always be there when I get back, but nothing is going to be getting done while I’m gone regardless – so stressing about it has no positive effect, and in fact diminishes what could be a stress relieving activity.
I constantly struggle with this.
However this weekend I had no problem turning work off for a few days. And you know what? It felt good. If I can continue to embrace this mindset, I know that this is going to be one hell of a summer. Between all of the stuff that is in store for both my work and my social life, I’m really excited to enjoy a summer in the northwest.
Quick side note: I’m currently on the metro train back to the other side of town, and just passed my old office building. Man, to think that this time last year I would have been in a suit and tie and sitting in an office building is startling. It’s completely sunny and 88 degrees out, the most perfect weather I could ask for. It’s moments like this I know I’ve done something right.
So this will be the end of my transitional posts for awhile. I know the last few have pretty much only been about my preparing to move back, moving back, and now being back. That’s cool and all, but I know you are probably ready for something a bit different! Stay tuned later this week for something a bit more substantial.
In the meantime, go do something fun. Seriously – you’ll be glad you did.
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Enjoy it Sean. It’s all about being in the “now.” Enjoying work when you need to work is part of it, but also being able to realize that work doesn’t have to consume you either.
Welcome back to the states & welcome back to the blog =)
Joel, exactly. Its a lesson I learned a long time ago, but one that can still be able to put into practice all of the time!
Welcome home, Sean! Yes, you returned just in time for the nice weather.
Glad to have you home! Now we just need to grab some beers and catch up…
Unplugging and not feeling that guilt about not working is something that I struggle with big time. Especially because I’m still not living the lifestyle I want to be living. I just feel like I’m delaying it even more when I’m not working.
Definitely something I need to work on, thanks for the reminder!
I love having you back. Golf was great and now you can look forward to more “fun” things like helping your mom move.
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Hi Sean. I really related to your comments on learning to turn off the little voice of the factory forman and rediscovering what life is really about.
The whole nine-to-five routine conditions us to believe its appropriate to work during those designated hours and if we don’t we’re being flakey or something. It can take some conscious practice and mental shifting to break out of that idea.
I love that I can work from my home and have more control over how I schedule work. I think it’s far better to work when you’re in the right zone and feel inspired or productive, than trying to knuckle down and put in the hours even though you’re only working at a fraction of your potential. You get so much more value for your time that way. Sometimes I do better work at 10 PM than in the middle of the day.
I only recently discovered your blog, but I’m really enjoying your upbeat, appreciative attitude to life. You’re obviously finding your alignment with your true path. Looking forward to more.
Best,
Lach
Just a quick counterpoint: What if putting in those hours in an office building, working hard, can make you appreciate your free time even MORE?
If every day is a “weekend”, doesn’t that make them rather meangingless?
Also, working in an office pays a lot better than vagabonding around Portland on a laptop. So there’s that, too.
@kevin
I don’t think it’s about not working. Sean’s been working his butt off for the last 7 months with Dan & co. It’s more about doing something you’re enjoy and are passionate about.
The said, I get the point about the office, but I don’t think you should dread what you do 40 hours a week. Whether or not it helps you ‘appreciate’ the free time or not, I know I wouldn’t want to spend that much time/week doing something I hate.
Hey Sean,
That’s why we have to separate work and play – not just in terms of time spent on them, but also in our minds. Being able to switch gears quickly and get into work or play modes as you need to is a great skill that develops over time.
Sean-
Great post. I can identify with struggling to shut things down so I can enjoy life. I constantly try to balance my desire of “making money” vs. “making memories”. I seem to be doing better these days, but the lure of work and responsibilities still weighs me down on many days. Glad to see you are continuing to evolve.
BTW – I am a fellow Porlander and the weather has been unreal… no place better than Portland in the Summers.
Sean –
Welcome home! I really enjoyed this post. You said so many “true” things.
“This weekend has taught me how important it is to take time to really enjoy the things that are worth living for in life…[T]here will always be work that can be done. One of the fundamental components of the location independent lifestyle is learning how to embrace the fact that just because you can work, doesn’t mean you should work.”
Exactly!
Welcom home, Sean! Looking forward to the next chapter!
Take Care,
Jill
I’ve come across your site from your guest post on theinfopreneur.net – and pretty much reflects the lifestyle that I’m looking to lead.
Welcome back to your new (old) home and I’m looking forward to reading your articles.
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