6 Steps to Turn Garbage Into Gold

This is a guest post by my friend and Location Rebel Expert, Tom Meitner.  He’s run the entrepreneurial gamut and shares some of the insights he’s learned through his experience in this post.  If you want to see more from Tom, definitely check out his site The Practical Nerd.

As I write this, my freelance business is currently riding on a wave of success. I’m pulling in almost twice what we normally budget for my income this month, and the month is far from over. As an entrepreneur, I know that these months don’t always happen, so I need to enjoy it while it’s here. After all, running a business means a lot of high’s and low’s, and this is definitely a high.

But as I sit back and savor this moment of success, my mind turns back to two years ago. In 2009, running pretty much the same business, I tanked.

In April of 2009, for example, I made $300. Total. I lived by myself, so I had rent to pay, utilities, groceries, and gas for my car. If you do the math, you’ll know that $300 won’t float you for the month.

With no money in the bank, I set on my path toward destruction. My then-girlfriend (now my wife) emptied her savings account to keep me going (and eating). Throughout the summer, things continued to remain dire. The headlights went out on my car, and I had no money to fix them. I ran my car empty of gas almost constantly. My landlord and I had pretty regular conversations about when I was actually going to pay rent.

At the end of the summer, I decided to start bartending a few nights a week to supplement my business income, hoping that I could keep myself afloat with a few hundred extra dollars a week. Unfortunately, the hotel in which I worked didn’t have a very successful bar, so it was common for me to come home with only a few dollars. In one night, after working 7 hours, I came home with $6 in tips. Another night, the bar was so trashed that I had to work until 5:30am to keep it clean. As I stumbled to my car after 13 hours of work, I noticed the sun was rising.

Finally, I admitted defeat and grabbed a full-time customer service job.

My landlord kicked me out of my apartment at Christmastime, and on New Year’s Day 2010, I was living in my parents’ basement with zero clients and a job I already hated.

So how did I go from this to running my own business full-time again, and making over $4,000 this month?

I could go on about hard work and persistence, and all the stuff that you have already heard. But the basic truth is that I followed a series of steps to respond to the disaster my business life had become, and then I pulled myself up, dusted myself off, and got it done.

These steps aren’t hard to understand, but they may take some hard work – and even a little dose of humility – to accomplish.

Step 1: Determine the real problem.

Notice: I said, “real”. My real problem was not that my clients stopped sending me work. My real problem was having no other clients. I had put all my eggs into the same basket and paid the price. Once those wells dried up, I didn’t have any other work to fall back on. In business, the last thing you want to do is rely on one source of income. When somebody’s business doesn’t do well, it is common for them to throw their hands up in the air and say, “Oh well, I guess it didn’t work out.”

But here’s the thing – everybody’s business hits roadblocks. There is no such thing as a sustainable business without problems along the way. So really, take the time to figure out exactly what was wrong with the business that made it fail.

Step 2: Recognize that the problem is avoidable in the future. 

Okay, here’s the point where you need a little humility and a lot of tough love: you failed because you did something to make you fail.

Read that again: you failed because you did something to make you fail.

Are you innocent? Sure, maybe. I started doing business with somebody who gave me a steady stream of income, but then he started taking advantage of my time and eventually stopped sending me paying work. Did his actions cause me to fail? Yes. But is he the reason I failed? Nope. I hitched my wagon to him, and that was a mistake. It comes down to me.

Did somebody screw you over? Well, that means you put yourself in a position to get screwed over. You took on more risk than you were able to handle. Once you understand this perspective, you can move on. But let’s be clear about this: you’re not a victim. You are a living, breathing person that has the free will to make choices. If you made a bad choice, it’s your fault for going down that road.

We’re not trying to get into some kind of downward spiral of self-blame and self-esteem issues. Being at fault doesn’t mean that you are a horrible person or a lousy businessperson. It just means that you are digging down to the true cause of the problem. In my case, I was too trusting of someone. Having that knowledge transforms how you do business moving forward.

Step 3: Compare/Contrast your approach with those who are successful.

When Dave Ramsey talks about personal finance, he tells people to take financial advice from rich people. Do as they do. If you take financial advice from somebody who doesn’t have any money, then what are you learning? You’re following the path of someone who failed.

So, in business, look around. Somebody is doing business similar to what you are doing. Grab them on Twitter. Google around a little bit. We live in an age where you can connect with just about anybody, with a little effort. If you need a little personalized help, reach out to them. In my experience, most of my fellow entrepreneurs are remarkably open to meeting and chatting with you for a little bit. But before you do that, remember: you don’t go up to them and say, “Hey, can you help me?” That’s a surefire way to getting no response.

Instead, try to offer something of value.

If they’re in your neck of the woods, offer to take them out for a beer or something. Meet up for lunch. Just offering to have a conversation is more than enough for most. And then, when you do get them in conversation, just chat with them. Let the conversation develop naturally. Don’t try to shoehorn your problems into it. Listen to what they have to say, and they will listen to what you have to say. If your problem comes up organically, they will be much more likely to offer a little bit of advice. But be genuine and sincere in your conversation.

Another great way to connect with those who are successful is through their blogs. Most entrepreneurs have an online presence somewhere, and you can find a blog for just about any goal. Start leaving meaningful comments on their blogs. Many are happy to share a little extra advice in their blog comments for everyone to see, and it helps them establish two-way communication with their readers.

Step 4: Determine your alternatives to future choices.

Let me sum up this idea using my failed business as an example:

  • What I Did Last Time: I relied on one client for all of my income.
  • Why It Failed: That client stopped sending me work and I didn’t have any additional income.
  • Alternative For The Future: Spread the risk out across several clients.

That was easy, right?

There’s a concrete reason why you failed last time. Once you’ve figured it out and learned from the successful, now you need to determine what you’re going to do when that problem comes up again in the future (because it will come up again).

In my case, I needed to keep getting more clients after getting the first one. Your’s could be finding a different source of motivation, or another way of mitigating your risk. This is the extra step in learning from your mistakes that too many people miss.

Step 5: Commit to those alternatives when the situation calls for them.

It does me no good to say I’m going to get more clients if I fall back into the trap of the “comfortable client” like I did before. The same goes for you: all of this education and learning from past mistakes is completely useless if you don’t put it into action. You need to be proactive and consciously commit to those solutions when the problems come up again.

Step 6: Get back out there!

Everybody falls down. The people who succeed are the ones that get back up.

If you’re running a race and you fall down, you’ll pick yourself up, dust yourself off, but do you just quit? Of course not!

When you’re building a business, you’re going to have that opportunity many times. The ones who succeed are the ones that keep moving forward once they pick themselves up again.

Think of it this way: if building that business is your dream, and you want your dreams to come true, which action is going to give you the best chance of success? If you keep going and learn from your mistakes, you could have a 50%, 60%, 75% chance of succeeding (if not much more). Every time you get up and learn from your stumble, you increase your chances of success. If you quit and walk away from it, your chances of success instantly drop to 0%. Give yourself the best chance to succeed by getting back out there without fear of failure. You might trip and stumble along the way, but the race gets smoother every time you get up again.

Too many people give up after their first problems arise.

If you want to succeed, you have to push yourself past those. But do so with your eyes open – don’t just grit your teeth and try to power through your problems. Take a time out, assess the situation, find a resolution, and then keep going.

Working smarter, not harder, is the key to making progress towards success.

Image Credit: Proimos

Alexander H. October 10, 2011 at 8:25 am

Nice, killer advice that is always an important reminder for entrepreneurs.

The problem is that a lot of us end up failing (temporarily) and then it takes a long time to get the balls to begin the process again. It sucks seeing so much work apparently go down the drain..

Alas, I guess that’s life and business – one big experiment.

Srinivas October 10, 2011 at 8:28 am

Thanks for sharing this. I’m kind of in a simliar phase to where you were prior to your wave of success. I think what really is important is that you saw it as an opportunity rather than a setback. The problem with seeing anything is a setback is you’ve labeled it such and your actions align accordingly. I recently found out that I qualified for unemployment benefits. While I was initially tempted to just stockpile the cash, I realized the best thing I could do is use that money to hire a business coach to help me to get my freelancing career off the ground. You’ve shared some great points here.

Tom Meitner October 10, 2011 at 12:13 pm

Nice work, Srinivas! That brings up a good point, too – once you see something as a failure, you treat it that way, and then you are going to have a hard time getting past it. Thanks for the comment!

Peter Zink October 10, 2011 at 9:00 am

Good post. The part about owning up and looking back at what you did wrong with your previous choices is crucial and something I found myself forgetting recently. It’s so easy to sit there and blame external factors for something you should be doing or not doing. And the part about mentors is crucial too, both of my side businesses developed from people I met who showed me new business opportunities out there. Thanks for sharing.

Tom Meitner October 10, 2011 at 12:14 pm

Glad to hear you’re pushing through, Peter! It’s so hard to change that mindset, but once you do, it’s like a breeze of fresh air. Thanks for commenting!

Peter Zink October 10, 2011 at 1:22 pm

Not a problem Tom, I like your site! I freelance write as well and like where you’re coming from.

James Tolf October 10, 2011 at 9:04 am

Great inspiration! they say sometimes to double your success rate you might have to double you failure rate. By telling us your down falls you are also using it as great content for your site which inspires others. Talk about a win win from one loss…..

Eric Johnson October 10, 2011 at 9:32 am

Good suggestions. In particular, I really appreciate that you described your personal situation as a prelude to the steps you took to address it. Many of us can identify with circumstances and challenges like that now. Nice to know that someone else has encountered it and come through.

Chas October 10, 2011 at 1:54 pm

What an awesome post! So many great points, and I am glad you wrote the story about when things weren’t so rosy, and how you tackled this adversity and kept going. Thanks for the great advice, and I am glad Sean gave you the opportunity to write a guest post.

Rich Taylor October 16, 2011 at 7:06 am

Hey Tom, great article this, I found myself reading through it and applying your thoughts not just to business / work, but to pretty much any facet of your life really. It is about perseverance and dusting yourself off and going again with a bit more knowledge for next time. If people approached decisions with this kind of atitude then there would be many more successful individuals. Hope the business keeps rolling in for you!

Jeff Weiss October 18, 2011 at 1:46 pm

Been there, done that. You’re spot on. It’s so easy to get comfortable when one or two clients are sending you enough business to stay comfortable. But if or when they leave, for a variety of reasons usually not your fault, you’re sunk. Great advice that needs to be reminded every so often.

Sangs October 26, 2011 at 1:28 pm

Hey Tom, these points are truly valid and notable. Iam in a similar situation as you were before … slightly different, but it is high time that I clearly have a written plan for my future and carry out those steps like a bible. Definitely success is not far off when you dream big and act with honesty to your own conscience.

Darlene October 28, 2011 at 11:23 am

Hi Tom

Good advice, but I’d like to add my two cents in terms of the words you use. You say, “If you made a bad choice, it’s your fault for going down that road.” and then you say not to blame others or yourself.

I find if you use the word “accountable” instead of fault or blame it isn’t about either, it’s just about who made the choices, like you said, to get you there. And one choice isn’t necessarily bad – think about this, how about you made the best choice you could at the time with the knowledge and information you had then. Now you will make and are making a different choice and having different results.

So for me choice is about going down one path – left or right – and neither is correct or incorrect, they just lead to different places. When we think in terms of that instead of beating ourselves up over our past “mistakes” we can learn from our experiences and grow. What if our “mistake” was supposed to happen so we learn the lesson now and not later when really big money is at stake?

Cheers
Darlene

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